So, long story short, my husband sent me an e-mail when I was nine months pregnant (a few weeks ago) asking for a separation. A little digging on my part found that the has been having an affair with another married woman. They are both in the military and she outranks him. I have been struggling with whether or not to report them and had almost decided against it until he came to see the kids this weekend and brought her along to stay at a local hotel while he spent a few hours with them. I don't want to be venegeful and I don't want to hurt us financially but I'm feeling like enough is enough. I can barely deal with the prospect that I no longer have a husband and then he basically throws her in my face. I have been really patient and maintained a peaceful situation until now. Any advice? I'm really trying hard to maintain a positive environment for my kids...
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To Report the Affair or Not