| elliesmom |
| (Carpal \'Tunnel) |
| 05/05/10 02:43 PM |
Re: what to do
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No. That is not what anyone said.
He must provide her with support until they divorce. After that, he must provide support for his child assuming your daughter-in-law is awarded custody. The best way to start getting that money is to sue for divorce and get temporary support ordered. DFAS will start paying HER. But she can't expect that he will support her (he will always have to help support his child) for very long. They simply weren't married for very long.
Yes, he can divorce her for no good reason and leave her without health insurance.
No, your grandchild will not lose HIS health insurance.
That the gf's exhusband was a drug grower will not matter much.
That he cheated won't matter much either.
Committing adultery is against the UCMJ, but whether the military will do anything is hit or miss. If he was having an affair with a colleague - MAYBE. A civilian - probably only if he was a high ranking officer with a sensitive position. They do not have the time to spend chasing after every adulterer unless the act itself created a problem at work.