| elliesmom |
| (Carpal \'Tunnel) |
| 08/01/10 08:46 AM |
Re: On a Boat
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Probably not. But nothing is stopping him from doing it when he returns.
I don't see the big deal with separate beds unless you also weren't having sex, which clearly you were as you are pregnant.
But hopefully you can get some counseling and maybe reach a consensus on this issue and others. Because its sounds like you decided "this is what I am going to do - like it or not." And he is was in the "not" column. And he had no say. It is is easy to do in a marriage (especially as a military spouse because you do have to make alot of decisions on your own so it does become a habit) because lets face it unless the other person is willniing to up and leave over it you will get your way. But it is neither fair to the other person nor healthy.