I am 20 as of now, and my parents were never married and I was pregnent with my mother because of my father cheating on his ex wife. I was use to going from house to house split custody. So I can safely say that this happening recently at your childrens mature age, it should not have affected them in a drastic way, especially when your son has his new life set in front of him. Your best odds in my own opinion would be to support him and your other child than worrying about them worrying about you. I have never gotten married so please don't quote me on this, but I hope this helps in someway. If you do have your children invloved in your devorce seeking some salvation from them, you risk bringing them turmoil as well. I would suggest pursuing your own council instead of making a it public to your family.
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Re: My children and I are hurting.