| matart1 |
| (Carpal \'Tunnel) |
| 02/04/09 02:58 PM |
Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not???
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while what your wife has done to you may be considered dirty - stooping down to her level is not in the best interest of your son.
I'm torn here though because she has no right to be filling his heads with lies to ease her conscience.
I don't see how telling your son the details is going to save your marriage. it may ease your hurt but it will also cause a lot of pain to a child who is probably already having a hard time dealing with what has been given to him.
is there anyway you can seek counseling for you and your son together. maybe that may help you heal.
it is possible for you to have custody if you request it.
please think long and hard about the long term affect telling your son everything.
good luck to you.