| gm4 |
| (recently joined) |
| 02/05/09 09:18 AM |
Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not???
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Thanks Debi, What is primary placement?
Yesterday she took our son out alone and told him again that she was separating from me. She indicated that to him that he could "choose" to live wherever and he told her that he wanted us all together but she wouldnt listen. I tried to reason with her too in vain. ( I was amazed and dismayed....)
I havent't told my son in any detail, but I dont want to lose him and want to bring him up on my own and not in a fatherless environment (or even a step father environment).
But I also dont want him to face the tug-of war trauma of his parents (us) . I am just afraid sick that he will innocently go and live with her/them and I will gradually lose him... Just dont want to let that happen..