| finz |
| (Carpal \'Tunnel) |
| 02/24/09 11:11 PM |
Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not???
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Yep, i'm glad that same shop teacher is going to be with boys for all those years, he really is going to think of him as dad, did I say anything about a transmission?
You must be the one who is trying hard to keep your child away from dad because he's a bad guy. Sorry that sucks, but there still are things you will never teach your son. There are things I can never teach our DD's, only he can. Why waste their connection with him? Sad. All in all, children love both parents, even if the other doesn't, they both have qualitites to share.
So since you know how a woman likes to be treated more than your husband would ever know, why don't you tell him all your secrets?
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Ummm........you didn't specifically say transmission, you said car...right here "Before red jumps down my throat, tools, shop talk, cars, how to take care and treat a lady ."
No one needs to have a 30 year relationship with someone to learn about cars.
Cars was one of your answers to what it was that ONLY a father could teach to reinforce your point that OP's boy needs a dad , not a mom, because there are some things only a man can teach.
I have just explained..again....why a boy does not need a dad to teach him about cars, shop, and how to treat a lady. So again, I ask you......why is it more important for a boy to be taught by his father ?
A child needs both parents, if they are around to be involved....you were the one to point out that a boy can only be taught somethings by his dad. I know several lesbian couples. Their kids (including boys) love both their parents.....which is both their moms, no dads involved and the kids are doing just fine.
Regarding your other comments.....you could not be more wrong. I am married....my boys are home with their dad everyday after school/work. I have no desire to keep my kids away from their dad. They love each other. My husband is a very private person and is reserved even with his kids. The only thing I can really see that they have ever learned from him is how to go to work each day, come home and sit in the study playing on the computer, eat supper, play on computer again, and go to bed. He does drive them to some activities. He has never had a heart to heart with them about anything. Never joined family game night, etc Never taught them how to play ball or worked with them on schoolwork........just yells at them to do better because they are "doing it wrong."
I have talked to my husband to explain what I want in a relationship and in the bedroom. He has not followed my suggestions. Oh well