| msycle |
| (recently joined) |
| 10/31/10 01:12 PM |
this is why fathers walk away
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I have been divorced for almost 2 years now and I have already been to court 5 times with and without attorneys , and getting ready for number 6. 2 weeks ago at our last court appearance the judge granted me co parenting classes because I do not know what else to do. My ex wife does not know how to co-parent because she just got remarried and wants her husband raising our children. 2 weeks ago we were also there because she has totally disobeyed a court order from July and the judge did nothing !!. What is so frustrating is that I also asked for more parenting time and I was denied. I only see our children on Wednesday evenings from 4-8 and every other weekends. The judge said I signed an order for parenting time 10 months ago and he is not changing it, due to the fact that there is no change in circumstances. He also said I violated our parenting order because this was a parenting issue and I did not go to mediation first which is in our decree.
In the last 10 months my ex wife has gotten engaged and married and poisoned the children even more. My 12yr old has referred to my ex and her husband as his parents on a few occasions and has asked me if he can change his last name. I would think that all of this would be a change in circumstances but the judge didn't want to hear it. We have been to mediation 7 times and I usually walk out because my ex tells the mediator its her way or the highway, so I leave. I have spent 50k on 2 attorneys and that is not an option anymore because my ex doesn't even listen to the judge. She is already in contempt of 7 more issues from July and it becomes very frustrating that the judge does nothing but deny the biological father more time with his children . Here is a biological father that wants more time with his kids and a judge says no. What am i to do now ?