| Mav8348 |
| (recently joined) |
| 07/18/08 11:47 AM |
Should I let go...
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I can not even believe that I am writing this. Its like a nightmare gone wild. My ex and I have been devorced now for 10 years. Had two choldren both girls. They have lived with her and I have had visitation. There have been numerous issues with the girls education, safty and general well being. Childrens agencies have been involved but my ex cleans up her act the agencies leave and it all starts again.
The girls have bounced back and forth over the years one time wanting to live with me and the next wanting to live with mom. Nothing that in divorce that is not normal. I told them though the last time that they said that they wanted to live with me and then at the last min said no that this would be it one more time and I am done.
The Courts ordered evluations and we are in the process. The girls have been assigned an advocate..
A week ago both girls came to me and told me that they no longer want anything to do with me. They said that they told there advocate this. I told them ok and now they are mad at me for doing what I said that I was going to do in first place.
Family and friends tell me that I am crazy for giving up and letting her have them lock stock and barrel.
This whole thing just realy stinks... I love those kids very much but if they don't want to be with me what should one do?
thanks for your help