The only visitation I am entitled to is when the stbx says I can have it. The judge just keeps putting it off hearing after hearing after hearing. We've been to court over this 4 times and the only thing that has been settled is the amount of child support I have to pay and that I can visit my kids at her house or if she tells me I am allowed to take them someplace else. I can not take them to see their grandparents because she won't let me. We had a court date set for November and I received notice from my attorney that she or her attorney has pushed it off till January. How can they keep doing this? It has all been pushed up to a higher court because the lower court judges wouldn't make a ruling. This has been going on for over a year. I still believe that men in the state of Virginia don’t stand much of a chance to get a fair hearing in any of this. Be it child custody or in the divorce process. Nothing me or my attorney has said or done seems to make a difference. It’s all about my stbx. She tells my kids that I’m a deadbeat dad because I don’t visit as much as I want to because I have to deal with her. I call to talk to the kids and she won’t put them on and I have to listen to her. I have to be nice or she can keep my kids away from me until the courts decide something. Is all of this unusual or is this the norm? Thank you all for listening to me rant.
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