Hi All, I live in N.Y.and have a? All martial assets are split equally in n.y right? The reason for this ? is I went to court yesterday and heard the judge who was speaking to both attorneys say "well he is letting your client live in the martial residence". I have 2 kids which will live with me and the child support will end up paying the morgage which in turn will be building up the equity in the home so in 7 years when the house is sold there will be more of a profit so I guess I am wondering just where exactly am I "profiting" from being able to keep my kids in their home?? We purchased another home (vacation)and I certainly do not want judge to give him that 1 while I maintain the home lived in on a daily basis only to have to split the profits when it comes time to sell. Seems to me that the STBX is profiting more as he will be getting most of his child support back. I get the feeling that the STBX will be making out better in this divorce than I am.We have been married 20 years on April 28 and STBX does not want to pay any spousal support. He makes $130,000 and I make $30,000.His child support will be 2708 per month, the judge will award me some ss right???
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