| KiwiGirl |
| (Carpal \'Tunnel) |
| 07/30/06 09:59 PM |
Re: Update on my situation
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Yup she has you by the short and curlies.
As for the Wednesday thing ... forget it. She wants to be able to control your social life and if she can hang onto one night it will become 2 and so on.
And in future, what will get to her more is to tell her absolutely nothing about your personal life. It is none of her business because she has shown you by her actions she is no longer interested in a monogomous relationship. So therefore do not tell your friends anything. Say "I am going out of town this weekend, feed the dog please. Here is my cell number if your need me." And leave it at that.
I think you need to keep any other relationship away from this wife of yours. Is it fair to this other lady to allow her to be used as a retaliation for your wife wandering off wiht her boyfriend? I would be very upset.
And get divorced and move along with your life. Your wife is a player and the only way to beat a player is to change the rules.