| Debi |
| (Carpal \'Tunnel) |
| 08/05/06 03:39 PM |
Re: Looking for answers and hope
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Alas,
I don't know if anyone has the answers. I don't know if there is ever a time when the answers come to you. There are something we will just never know or understand.
As Nancy said all of the things that you are doing are positive steps and will make things easier. You already know that if he isn't going to change then you can't make it. I know what it feels like to lose your soulmate. We were only together for 3 years (and not married) and it took me damn near a year to get to a place where I wanted to move on without him. Thankfully I'm there now and moving forward everyday.
I think that you are already healthier than you realize. Keep posting here and doing the other things you are doing. My divorce happened 5 years ago and I've made some friends on this board that I'd no longer know how to live without. You will too. I mostly come here now to help others although there are times when I need advice also.
(((HUGS)))---Debi