| Melanie1 |
| (addict) |
| 12/24/06 04:52 AM |
Re: How much do you tell the kids?
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Hi Karen,
I'm glad you posted about all the legal stuff as I can relate. Same sort of stuff happened with the X while we were divorcing. And now more ugly stuff, legally, is going on which the X started, that YS has no clue about. And I think I'll keep it that way unless circumstances dictate otherwise.
However, to be honest, there's a part of me that wants to tell YS everything; every dirty little deed the X has done; all the nasty maneuverings; all the lies and self serving actions he's taken over the years. It seems so unfair that YS only sees the 'nice' side of X and believes he's a upstanding citizen and good guy, when I know different. Though I think cracks in the X's teflon coating are starting to show and YS is getting glimpses of what he's really like deep, down underneath. Or maybe he knows but doesn't care and loves the X anyway.
Bottom line is that for now, I'll keep all legal stuff under raps, as well as all the ugliness for as long as I can. But it's hard and sometimes I just want to blurt it all out...
Melanie