I think you should make sure he knows EXACTLY what you're looking for in a relationship with him and that you are in the market, so to speak, for a new long term romantic partner. Wherever that leaves him is where he will remain until you find Mr. Right and then it's probably over, whether it's just friends, friends with benefits, or no contact at all.
If continued contact with him will cause you too much confusion or discomfort to be open to a new person then you should just cut him off. But if you want to remain friends and can handle that (with or without benefits) then good for you just enjoy.
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