My husband and I have been separated for seven months - he leaving for OW. I probably think about it a little every day but the key is how do I feel about it. Every day it gets better and I actually can laugh and enjoy myself now. When I think about whether or not I would want to go back to my prior life, there is no way. I didn't realize how his actions were hurting me. Now that I have been away from him and our marriage for these months, I realize that this is probably the best thing that ever happened to me. Took me a long time to get here though. I don't know if I will ever not think about my marriage. We were married for 26 years and have two adult children. Those memories will always be a part of my life. So I will smile when I remember the good and be a little sad when I remember the bad.
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