| Debi |
| (Carpal \'Tunnel) |
| 08/05/07 10:45 PM |
Re: My vent
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Badasp amd WB,
I want both of you to know that I don't blame men for the issues I'm having regarding relationships. I know I have a lot to work on myself. When I talk about men who only want one thing I'm talking about the ones who ask my bra size and other very personal sexual questions before we even meet. (internet meetings) I don't expect to be taken out and have a lot of money (or any money) spent on me. I'm perfectly okay going 'dutch". I knowthere are really wonderful guys out there, I've just had a hard time finding one. I think it's one of those cases of "Stop looking and let 'it' find you." I do know that since I have (soon to be) 4 kids and since I'm almost 40 and my oldest is 13 it will take someone with a lot of patience. Most of the men in my age range have kids that are a lot closer to being on their own than mine are. I had my first at 25 and a lot of people started at 20 so they are done with this part of their lives. It makes it a lot more complicated.