| kav |
| (old hand) |
| 10/18/05 09:18 PM |
Re: How do you guys handle this stuff?
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And you can whine if you want. Frankly, I don't see it as whining though, you're just blowing off steam. You have to go through your stages, just like when someone close to you dies. Now you're feeling sadness and it's hard. Me, I couldn't wait to reach anger. It's certainly a better emotion. Your situation is tough, you have the connection with your son. It's too bad that he sees so much and even worse that you know about it. When my stbx came by tonight to discuss the divorce, the first thing I told him was don't volunteer any information to me that I don't ask for. I don't want to know what he does, why he does it or when he's doing it. I just want it all out of my head. These relationships with the younger partners that everyone seems to want to get involved in, I just don't see many of them lasting. Someday your stbx may wake up and realize what a good thing she lost. That feeling they get from being with someone so much younger has to fade at some point. Then what are they left with? Dealing with the immaturity that they already lived through so many years ago.
Kim