| VanajaGhose |
| (newbie) |
| 03/04/10 07:50 AM |
Re: Guidance
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While I feel sorry for your situation and what you are going through - you HAVE to take some responsibility for what is happening to your children - as they are the innocent ones whose lives are being shaped by their environment. They didn't ask for this.
You can't make you wife (or anyone else for that matter) do anything they don't want to - so quit "trying". It won't work. Instead, focus on what you must do for your children - never mind about your feelings (sorry for being a little tough here, but you are the adult and you have a responsibility to them). And if that means you getting out from there with your children and filing for divorce - then do that. Yes, it will hurt for quite some time, but you WILL get over it. On the other hand, your kids may never recover.
Please do what is best for your children.