| BeachBabeRN |
| (Carpal \'Tunnel) |
| 11/03/10 07:40 AM |
Re: How do you start over?
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I'm so sorry that you're in this place right now Shallon, truly I am.
I'd suggest that you look around on the internet and find the definition of both **bully** and domestic abuse. Your husband will fit the definition nicely. Unfortunately.
You are a person with feelings and needs and desires. Your husband CRACKED YOUR RIBS. In most states, that would be a felony.
Whether or not you know how to be alone at this point in your life is irrelevant -- you need to start learning now. If you have no children, leave the house. You've only built your life around him for three years and it was a process that was very insidious and very slow, until he's gotten you away from everything you've cared about so that he can continues controlling and abusing you.
Every man/woman is capable of breaking their spouse's heart, believe me. It doesn't have to be deliberate, a plan to break their heart but it gets broken nonetheless. Better your heart than your head or arms or legs or some more ribs.
In this situation, money doesn't matter, possessions don't matter, nothing matters except saving your own life.
You need to get out NOW. Before he kills you.