Sure sounds painful, Rattlesnares. I'm sorry it's been so hard and difficult. I've been thru two divorces, and don't wish this transition on anyone, but it's happening more and more, isn't it? It does get easier, for sure. After my second I was devastated, and felt like ending my life. I read Deepak Chopra's book, 'How to Know God', despite not being a member of any religious dogma organization, but one story he told grabbed me, and maybe saved my life. The quote was this: Anyone can end a relationship for any reason that they want to, and there's absolutely nothing I can do about it. Somehow, that was very freeing for me, and I began my healing journey back to holding my life in my own hands after that reading that quote, in that moment. I wish you all the best in your healing path. Don
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