Run, do not walk to the nearest exit. He doesn't share 50/50 with his x....his MOTHER does. I'd say he's a big time mama's boy and at 41 it's not likely to gte better. I can see and understand the first part (her getting the kids off to school and watching them after). I can even see them being at her home fopr meals PART of the time. Maybe even go so far as to understand if HE needed to go to her house to wash the clothes.......but the money part? Drawing the line there.
Dating him is fine but I don't see any room in the picture for it to become more serious. He's already married to his mom. There's really only one thing he needs from you. (Sorry to be crude.) This man definitely needs to grow up (grow a set) and take his life back. Have you ever asked how much his mom had to do with the end of his marriage? I'd be curious.
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