| nolonger |
| (enthusiast) |
| 09/29/08 08:49 AM |
Re: Can we be friends?
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Hind site is 20-20. I have a question for you since you are ahead of me in time, so to say.
I have barely begun a special friendship with a man who lives 1 hour away. We both can never move due to custody and his job so right away it is never going to go anywhere.
That's perfect for right now. I am in no shape to jump into a serious relationship (divorce not even final yet due to stbx dragging it out)and am just looking for someone to have fun with again - no strings attached.
The problem is, we have this chemistry together. We have SO much in common. It's too early to tell, but I can see the possibility of me falling for him eventually. My brain is telling me not to let it get there due to no future. I don't want to end up 1.5 years later having to break up with someone I love to be able to find a closer mate.
Should I bail out now?