| shortmarriage |
| (Pooh-Bah) |
| 06/17/09 11:30 PM |
Re: Separated and in Love with Twin Flame
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I'm so sorry for what you're going through.
But, I must admit, that when I read your post, it's seemed that she was simply using you. I apologize. I know that sounds very harsh.
She is fresh out of a marriage, right? Not even divorced yet, just separated with kids? And immediately she's re-connected with you and in love?
I've been married 2 years, no kids, and he's holding up the divorce and I refuse to get involved with anyone seriously. That's me though. It takes time to heal and start a new relationship off in the right way (even if it's an old connection-BTDT). I just don't think it works out for either party in the long run, short term can be bliss though. I'm sorry, I know it hurts! Because you may be there, and she's not (even though she thought she was).
She was using you as a means to have her deal with you, while she's working through what she should- for herself and her kids. That was not fair to you and I think it's much better that you found out now rather than later.
I'm sorry, but when I first read your post, I thought she was stringing you along. Be glad that she cut you loose before more time, emotions, and money were invested.
You'll be better off. You don't want to start off the relationship being a doormat. Time to move on.