| INEEDSOMEHELP |
| (recently joined) |
| 10/04/11 12:59 PM |
Re: PLEASE HELP ME I DON"T KNOW WHAT TO DO - cont
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BeachBabeRN, i appreciate your input and you're right about him not having any incentive to actually work on our issues if I decide to move back. Thats pretty much me throwing away 5 months for nothing and still getting stuck at where i left off. Well what should be my next step? I have told him that we need to start talking about everything, and he's agreed to talk. But again, my problem is HOW he approaches the issues. He doesn't get the point that we're adults and we need to Learn how to address and discuss each issue in order to resolve it. We don't pressure each other, we just need to learn HOW to talk to each other about deeper problems without offending each other. I give up...
And it's not about growing up, it's just that i'm trying to be patient, but i can't keep teaching him how to treat me. He can't seem to make up his mind either and stick with it.