| ljnsy |
| (old hand) |
| 12/31/06 09:34 AM |
Re: Proving allienation of a child
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I believe bad mouthing the other parent etc. is in most of our court orders, however, it is very difficult to prove.
My XH, his Fiance and family are constantly saying bad things about me in front of and to my S10. S10 comes back and tells me they say bad things. I don't ask what they say, I simply tell him that in situations such as ours, some people get angry and say things they don't mean. I tell S10 that HE knows what kind of person I really am and should simply ignore what they say. I told him that what ever bad things they say about me doesn't bother me in the least.
Your children will get older and make up their own minds about you and their father. In the future, their fathers words about you will not hurt you but will come back and bite him in the a$$! My XH has been talking badly about me since DS was 4 years old...that I know of. DS believed him at first but now believes none of it and is starting to not want to go visit his father because of that bad things he says. They make him angry and he is constantly telling his father to stop.
Alienation can work against the parent attempting it. Kids aren't stupid. They figure out exactly what's going on eventually.