| Redlegg |
| (Carpal \'Tunnel) |
| 01/03/10 09:52 AM |
Re: temp orders
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Can I get temp custody due to the fact that they do not feel safe with mom?
My best guess would be maybe, maybe not, because how realistic is the judgement of a child. what happens when they decide they don't want to go to school, or church, or even eat their vegetables. It is not to say they are, or are not safe with mom, but the reality is that we cannot trust the judgement of children on things that are convenient for us, or are inline with our wants.
You need to use the system, file for temp custody, stating everything you think is going on. Chances are her affair will not come into it custody wise. You are facing circumstances that you do not like, and you cannot control. It is a trerrible position to be in, but that is what it will be. Use the system, leave the emotion out of it, find a great lawyer and document everything you see, and move forward. The pace will not be to your liking, but you have to work within the system.