I have been married for 5 years this past February. We have been together for 8 years and have a 3 yo daughter. I don't quite know when things went wrong, I think it was when I got pregnant and we stopped drinking so much. It seems like that's the only time we really get along these days, when we drink. He has told me that he never wanted our daughter, that he doesn't know why he married me in the first place and that he doesn't know if he wants us in his future. He has also told me that he didn't mean what he said. He has told both me and our daughter that he wants to kill himself everyday. He told a friend of his that "between the wife and a 3 yo he's ready to jump out a window". I mentioned counseling and he refuses. I don't know what to do ... but I have recently started to have some feelings for another man. I would never have an affair, but I think about this other man a lot. Any thoughts or suggestions??
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in need of advice