| Rebecca5 |
| (Carpal \'Tunnel) |
| 08/04/06 10:36 AM |
Re: in need of advice
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Suggestion #1....let go of the other man until you get your current situation squared away. It does a huge disservice to your marriage and your child to not focus completely on the commitment you have already made.
Suggestion #2....Get yourself into counseling. While it doesn't appear as though you're the one with issues, living with a partner who is going through troubling times can take its toll. One of you has to be on the ball to take care of your child.
Suggestion #3....Rally support for your spouse. If he has a friend that he confides in, ask for his/her help. If he's close to a parent or employer, ask for their help. He needs to get into counseling.
Lastly....Rule #1....if you honestly think, at any time, that he's a danger to himself or other people....protect yourself and your child first. Seek advice from a local counselor about what resources are available to you.