| Curmudgeon |
| (Pooh-Bah) |
| 02/11/07 12:33 PM |
Re: New husband, new problems
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It sounds as if he's the one who needs the therapisty to get over his jealousy issues. Being a widower, he above all others should understand.
All I can suggest is the next time he starts this drivel, tell him that if you didn't love him you wouldn't have married him and you certainly wouldn't still be there with him, then be perfectly honest about how his jealousy over a dead man (sorry to be blunt) is driving you away.
Sometimes we men need to be hit between the eyes with a 2X4 to get our attention. Continue hiding your frustration and disappointment for so long as you think the marriage has a chance and don't discuss your former husband, where you went, what you did, etc. in front of him. In time the matter may become moot. Two years is not a lot!