William has not had the most successful life up to now. As he nears retirement, he is getting worse. Unfulfilled dreams, children problems. He views himself as having been cheated out of many pleasures of life. He wasn't cheated, he just never took the time to do them, enjoy them, pursue them. He spends too much of energy trying to do things he thinks will make me happy or happier. What he doesn't realize, is that it is his smile I want to see! He's a good man. He had to be or I wouldn't have considered marrying him. He is just too worried about us. (One woman's magazine suggests I should invite him for a bubble bath. Since it's Sunday and no football, I think I will log off now.)
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Re: New husband, new problems