Part of me feels like later on in life I will look back and regret it if I leave. I have heard people say that as a relationship grows older and the couple does, sex becomes less important and the friendship/company goes to the forefront. But I am 36 - not 56. I understand this and I personally feel like I as a human-being naturally look for meaning in the things I do in my life. My marriage has a lot of meaning and comfort but at the same time a tremendous amount of frustration. I genuinely like my wife a lot and that lead to love in the past. The like hasn't stopped. i was never attracted to her physically although I thought she was beautiful faced. The point is, if you liked your husband enough to marry him but you divorced because of the sex not being good enough, how do you view him today? Was it hard to leave? Were you filled with second thoughts? Did it get easier with time? I don't want to make a wrong decision. If I didn't like my wife as a person and feel so comfortable around her, this would be so much easier. I also miss the home life I had now that I have moved out.
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Re: happily unhappy, I think. I guess. What ever.