| BillRJohnston |
| (newbie) |
| 12/18/07 10:46 AM |
Re: Need some advice - Im so lost
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Ok. It was cheating and I believe as well that it is cheating.
I left my wife last night. I confronted her with the fact that she had been still pursuing the emotional affair with the man I caught her with before. She lied and lied and even when she said "this is what happened" she was lying and she finally came clean .... or so it seems.
I told her before that if this was still going on and that if she couldnt be honest it would mean divorce. So last night I left her. She has called me almost every hour, stalked where I am going, texted me 100 times ... she now is saying she has a problem and that she wants her best friend back and she is so stupid and would quit her job, move away with me, anything ...
I am not going back to her anytime soon at least. I feel like I should follow through with the divorce but I am weak when it comes to giving people 2nd and 3rd chances ... I never have believed in divorce because it normally means you are giving up on resolving an issue and 2 people normally have a hand in the problem. I don't know.