| Annie7676 |
| (old hand) |
| 12/18/07 09:10 PM |
Re: Need some advice - Im so lost
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I still do not know if its "cheating" but having your partner exert energy into someone else is sure a bad sign. Especially when you say she has done this before.
Yes people usually feel bad when they get caught...and the applecart is upset...but what you do is up to you....she may say anything...and then do this again...who knows? Maybe not...
Of course most of us do not believe in divorce or want a divorce but why should we stay with someone who wants someone else? Is there something wrong with us when we hang on to someone who is obviousily making time with someone else? It could just be a passing fancy but again how do we know that when it happens.
Maybe by you leaving and being [censored] she will see what she is losing and realize she is making a mistake and you can put the marriage back together.
good luck