| Jacob |
| (journeyman) |
| 05/12/08 07:20 AM |
Cheating wife
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My wife left me last August for a man she met playing the online game Warcraft. I was on temporary duty at Fort Benning when I got the 2000 phone bill that clued me in that something was going on. I immediately opened a new checking account and got a lawyer. The most painful thing in my life happened, she tricked me into a 3 way phone call with this guy and professed her love for him. She thought she was going to get alimony + child support, but she only gets 2/3rds of BAH type II, about $600. She kept asking for more money since she didn't work. My reply was "get a job" So i decided to pick up the pieces and move on. I started dating again. In November, she called and said she loves me and wants to be with me. I agreed to try to reconcile, but I said it would be very hard since I'm getting deployed. I told her she was to have nothing to do with the guy again. When i got home, there was a call from canada on the phone from the previous day. I found earlier chat logs where she states:
rachel slade well, this is kinda gruesome, but.....
rachel slade i found out today
slade rachel lay it on me
rachel slade that if whats-his-name dies in iraq, i get a lot of money lol
slade rachel not gruesome love, ruthless
slade rachel haha
rachel slade lol
Now i'm Iraq. I don't trust her. She avoids answering questions outside of the weather, our daughter or money. So conversations that could occur that would rebuild trust do not. I obviously think she is still cheating. She doesn't have access to my money and I did take her off my life insurance. Suggestions?