| Annie7676 |
| (old hand) |
| 05/24/08 07:25 PM |
Re: Unfaithul Husband
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Getting him to come back home is probably not an option right now...the new woman is new...and different and not part of his life....instead focus your energies on getting some legal advice on how to protect yourself and children. Assume when dealing with him on anything now that she is behind the scenes calling the shots...you are not just dealing with him but "her".
See a lawyer, make copies of all your bank statements, assets, etc...know what your family worth is...you do have protection and he will proably try to tell you otherwise. As a long term wife you may have rights to part of his pension, child support, and maybe alimony.
but dont wait..you can be hurt all you want which is very understandable but know through all the hurt that there is another woman in his life right now and she may be calling the shots...so protect your kids for their sake
I am sorry you are going through this but treat the breakup like a business transaction...both of them are not going to look out for your welfare...
good luck