| Annie7676 |
| (old hand) |
| 07/03/08 07:24 AM |
Re: Good Question
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Well maybe the person you loved is still in there - just as miserable as you....if you can both reach out to each other and find your way back maybe you can work out the marriage.
I was with my x for almost 30 yrs...jobs, kids, etc pushed us apart and then the intimacy goes...he is a nice guy and we both dealt with it in our different ways...and when this happens we usually arent consciously aware of it.
If both of you want to save your marriage and make a great life for you and your wife and the kids, then again counseling and facing what has happened may help. taking care of kids and working can really drain the time you have left as a couple...couples need to make that time for each other....
i wish you luck...divorce is very hard and can get very ugly and then after all that...the grass on the other side of the fence may not be greener after all....
divorce is easy to initiate but the train ride is awful...and life may never be the same....
again good luck