| THandSofFP |
| (member) |
| 12/06/08 08:35 PM |
Re: vascillating
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Yes, I have a suggestion(s).
Since he is sick, you should keep to your SACRED vows: ...in sickness as in health...
If he is not cheating on you or beating you up, Biblically, you have no grounds for divorce.
Perhaps you need to attend AA for families.
Perhaps you need to get a grasp on reality.
Perhaps you need to look at what you did to cause this. Did you promise something before marriage that you are not doing during the marriage?
Are you forsaking others? In other words, are you making him the focus of your life after God and this includes the children?
YOU chose this person to be your husband and to Father your children.
Just because you are unhappy currently, all the studies show that if you are doing everything possible to support him and your lifestyle, you will be happy again within 5 years or less.
Don't let 1 or 2 years of unhappiness destroy all that you have built.
Be kind, don't rewind, do what is right per your sacred vows and eventually, all will be copesetic.