| cyber_green1 |
| (journeyman) |
| 07/20/09 02:03 PM |
Re: dont know what to do now
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thanks for the advise
I did get back into the house with a police escort and she was still mad at me. I stayed with the kids and had a great time, I am trying to leave her alone (it is not easy) we still havent talked in over a year and I am letting go and mending myself. starting to realize that I am pushing and I dont want to do that so I didnt give her the letter and just acting like I want the divorce to continue. It not easy but for the kids I think its the best thing now.. also should I go for the divorce as hard as possible? I mean I have a lot of dirt on her and it will come out in court, if I let it. it seems like I would really be pushing her away even more. but maby thats what I have to do?
I hate this feeling of not knowing what to do.