| N_Davies |
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| 04/05/10 02:15 PM |
Re: How do you know when its time to let go?
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I don't think it's suprising that you are confused.
You have this guy, that you loved (and probably still do), turning back up after months of absence saying lets make it work. What would you advise your mother, sister, best friend if she were in your shoes?
However, it is your heart you must follow. If he says, "I'll move back to US only if you agree to stay with me." it sounds to me like he's asking you to start accepting conditions on his love.
If you are considering that, I would suggest you say, "Ok, for now, I'll put the divorce on hold, however, you need to get your ass back here, permanently, and we'll start working on our relationship."
If he won't return until you 100% commit to not divorcing, I'd tell him to pound sand.