| Annie7676 |
| (old hand) |
| 06/02/10 07:42 PM |
Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids
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You answered your own question, how do I get her back? It takes two willing participants...She wants out, and has made that clear...you can't work with that, no matter how hard you try.
I would seek a lawyer, in some areas the give free consults, write all your questions down and know what your rights are. While you are emotional now thats normal, don't be dumb. Divorce gets ugly and you need to protect your rights and those of the children and know what you can do legally. Thats reality.
You are 22, you are so young to have all this responsibility and she never had time to experience life as a teenager, young adult, etc. It sounds like she wants to party and do all the things she never got to do because she had a child at a young age and then another one.
You are continuing your education, what about her? What was she doing? A SAHM? Thats tough especially when you see others having fun.
What to do? Well once the other partner wants out, thats pretty much it. IF she is with others, then you need to protect yourself from ...well you know.
Good luck to you.