| basketman |
| (recently joined) |
| 08/24/11 04:46 AM |
Re: How can I stop fighting with wife ?
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I faced a similar situation in my first marriage. I felt that almost everything my wife said was a criticism, a put down, or a complaint.
Too late, we did talk about it and looking back, 16 years on, I can see that the problem wasn't what my wife was saying, but what I was hearing, if you follow me.
She was having what she considered was a conversation, but I was hearing a criticism.
So if I can presume to give you any advice, see if she is intending a criticism, or just wants to talk about something, but maybe doesn't have a good way to bring up the subject.
Talking is always the best solution to fighting.
Paul.