| willow820 |
| (newbie) |
| 05/06/05 10:08 AM |
Re: Hee Hee
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No offense, Matilda, but I think that you have bigger problems than your boyfriend's daughter's behavior. I've been coming to this site for awhile and haven't seen many posts that were as hostile as yours. You have a lot of anger . . . towards your boyfriend, towards his father, his ex, his daughter, even towards the people on this board who are trying to help you!
I also think that you are prone to a bit of hyperbole. The very highest paid teachers in California - I mean the ones with the most experience and education, don't make anywhere near six figures (see page 8, http://www.edsource.org/pdf/TeachersCompFinal.pdf ). If you WERE the kind of amazing, successful person that would warrant being paid at the absolute top of the pay scale for all teachers in CA, I have to wonder why you would get involved with someone whose family you think is trailer trash, who has had drug and financial problems, who doesn't seem to have many promising prospects of his own . . . and then choose to have a child without marrying him fist. Two things that I think that are often true: people who have money don't talk about it to the degree that you do here, especially with strangers (I feel like I know what everything in your house costs, even the staircase!), and really successful people don't get mired down with Jerry Springer lifestyles.
This may all seem meanspirited, but there are a lot of people who come here because they really want / need help. That's pretty hard to do if you're not being honest.