| Gecko |
| (Carpal \'Tunnel) |
| 05/04/07 05:24 PM |
Re: An absolute nightmare day...
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One swift, meaningful slap...yes, I would do that. That is not a "spanking." My kids, at 15 and 12, are too old to spank.
---> Oh yeah, I can see how slapping your child in the face is SOOOOOOOOOOO much "better", than a quick pop on the butt. As for considering YOUR 12YO "too old"...that is YOUR parental choice.
Also, no man in my family would be doing genital examinations on my TEENAGE daughter's genitals before going to the Dr.
---> Man...talk about exaggeration. Get your facts straight...oh that's right...you can't...otherwise you couldn't slam him.
I dno't think Gr8dad sees his role in what is going on with his SD.
---> No...I think the problem is that YOU can't see. Ray's daughter is just that...HIS daughter and she will NEVER be more than that anymore than Ray will be nothing more than their mother's husband. In GDaddy's FAMILY...there is NO "yours" and "mine"...it's all "ours".
We've all seen his short fuse and penchant for anger.
---> Hell girl...you piss me off too, doesn't mean I'm beating on the hubby, kids and cat when I'm "offline"!
He seems only interested in protecting himself at this point.
---> First of all...he would be STUPID not to. Even if CPS determines "unfounded", it still doesn't change the fact that a family will go through hell in the meantimes!
---> Second...he could have just let her go live with her friend like she wanted and washed his hands of her...after all...she's not his REAL daughter, but instead he look for a solution that was HER best interests. As for the "show" before the siblings...ABSOLUTELY necessary. What daughter was doing was WRONG...remember, she has BLACKMAILED her parents...she's not a "hero", she's not a "victim"...she was being held accountable for her actions before her peers.