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It makes no sense why you can't wait. She will only graduate once.. Then she will turn 18 in July.. what BM wants after that is irrelevant. So BM doesn't want to bring her to you in July or August.. big deal! Send her gas money to drive herself to you.. or fly her out of her town to meet you at the port. You haven't even booked the trip yet.. so plan it for a month or 2 later and what the BM wants is irrelevant. I "wanted" to do lots of things as a teen too.. but my mom/dad were made sure not to make me choose between 2 memorable opportunities at the same time!! You are enticing SD w/ a cruise over final high school memories.. unfair position to put anyone IMHO. Just pick a different weekend. You're making a mountain out of this.. and it sure as heck wouldn't be the hill I'd choose to die on. |