| cincsu |
| (Carpal \'Tunnel) |
| 06/23/08 07:11 PM |
Re: What would you do?
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if i were to tell you what i believe others have told me on this board in the past is that you should mind your own business because it isn't your household and it hasn't happened with your children there - that is what i was told. however, you are a BM so i am sure you will get just the opposite answer.
now, in our situation SS was being driven by a man that had had 4 DUIs plus got arrested while SS was in the car for driving on a suspended license to DUI. BMs husband was also on house arrest for beating his ex wife more than once.
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my personal opinion is that when there is a court case it is always better to have more documentation than less and to have copies of everything you can get your hands on because you never know when it will be important. it may come up 10 years from now and by then it could be more difficult and too late to get the documents. they are public record so get them...even if you don't do anything with them.
now, from the standpoint of our custody evaluator, it obviously didn't make much of an impact that BM thought it was okay to expose SS to a habitual drunk or a beater....so, from your standpoint i don't know how much of a difference it would make either unless the evaluators are just as biased as others i run into. then again, you're the BM so it may make all the difference in your case.