| preemiemom |
| (Carpal \'Tunnel) |
| 06/25/08 09:28 AM |
Re: Give an inch, he wants a mile
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Guess I'll be the dissenting view.. as always.
First, yes.. the "arbitrator" needs some grammar and/or typing lessons, BUT alot of what he said has ALOT of truth and value.
I can totally relate to what he's saying about a 27 year old guy shouldn't be living with mommy. Particularly mommy whom isn't allowed to be alone with the child.
My ex is 36, living with mommy and stepdaddy. Albeit paying rent.. but there's still issues. When he moves to the other side of the basement (paying less rent), there will be no bathroom, there will be no living area. As they do know, they hang out, and play, watch TV in Daddy's bedroom. Not ideal.
You're never going to SEE those arrearages anyway. Why not act in good faith?
PLEASE don't bring up the damn car. YOUR choice. He didn't ask you to take the car, you CHOSE to take the car.
Personally? I think you're "laughing" at it shows YOUR character and totally desire to 100% control the situation the way YOU want it to be. And you're not doing yourself, your son, or your ex, any good by it.
You could let it go... accept the agreement. You have a LONG way and a ton of potential dollars to have arrearages on. What's 6 grand in the grand scheme of things?