| JennyLynn |
| (Carpal \'Tunnel) |
| 06/25/08 09:35 AM |
Re: Give an inch, he wants a mile
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PM - no, flat out, I will NOT be doing myself or my son ANY favors by accepting this.
I have let this man control my life and walk all over me for long enough.
If laughing about it proves my character, it shows I'm strong enough to be ABLE to laugh about it.
And tomorrow? This isn't just between him and me. I can't even say a judge would ALLOW me to forgive all his arrears, he is in contempt or court and this is a criminal case - it is the state vs. XH, I don't have all the control.
Sure, some of what he said is true, and a LOT of it is not true, as well as the fact that he's leaving out a lot of the facts.
Did I force him to move home with mommy? Did I force him to make all the decisions he has made?
You can continue to make excuses for this man, I'm thankful I'm finally strong enough to no longer do the same.