| youngatheart |
| (Carpal \'Tunnel) |
| 06/25/08 01:34 PM |
Re: Wow....I fully agree with BB1
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Try again. I've gotten to see how it works for NCPs. That's a lot of why my order was written the way it is. It's one of the reasons I took so much of a hit when I shouldn't have as far as finances are concerned.
He has options. The only option he seems interested in is the one where Jenn hands him what he wants.
Jenn and I have been over this backwards and forwards. MY initial stance was, "let him go to jail...seriously". But, Jenn is kind, and I understand her premise because I'm there with my ex as well. She'd rather find a way to work it out, but she's not (and I agree with her on this one) willing to give up everything.
If they can't come to an agreement, then a Judge will have to decide. But, I would NEVER suggest to Jenn that she should 100% give up the arrears or regular child support.
As far as his financial situation, he needs to figure it out as a responsible person would do. There ARE options to him. He doesn't have to take all of those options, he doesn't have to take most of those options, but he HAS options. The only one he's interested in, seemingly, is the one where he walks away free and clear.