| preemiemom |
| (Carpal \'Tunnel) |
| 06/25/08 09:49 PM |
Re: Well, I have to say
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What does dragging an adoption and an abortion into it have to do with anything whatsoever? Totally irrelevant and said solely to hurt. I'm a-ok with my decisions in those regards, but nice try.
No, I haven't been ordered to pay child support. My ex was blackmailed into paying child support when they had basically 50/50 and undid a waiver solely b/c of my existence in his life.
I wrote the checks. I worried where the money was coming from for the 50% of our marriage that my ex was unemployed entirely.
I got the "mail" with the itemized bills. Addressed.. TO ME. Not to my ex. To me. She knew damn good and well "he" wasn't paying it, the money wasn't coming from him, it was coming from ME.
So, I may not have been the one with the name on the docket, sure as heck felt like I was the one ordered to pay it since I was the one paying it.